Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. Usually, I typically don't date someone who is separated, but considering the fact that the divorce is only a couple of months away and that we really hit it off and that she was pretty aggressive in her interest in me, I figured "It's only a couple of months, right?
She said she wanted to keep our dating discrete, meaning she didn't want her husband finding out. This tipped me off. This would mean he's probably not okay with her dating.
Also, this could impact the outcome of the divorce. Now, another reason I went along with this, as I have quite a friends tell met go for it, as they themselves and their friends had no qualms about dating while separated and in fact, one of them even wound up marrying the new person they were dating.
But then I grew a conscious and went with my gut about how her husband would not be okay with her dating I asked that we take a break.
She wasn't too happy,k in fact it hurt her feelings as she was really into Dating a woman who is legally separated I asked that we wait until she's divorced in 2 months I think I did it because also, I know some men would probably snatch her up and not give a wink about her divorce status, too. And quite a few of my friends told me themselves that they never waited for the divorce when they started to get back in the saddle. Do you take it on a case-by-case basis?
I'm afriad her soon-to-be ex may drag his heels. Some spouses tend to deliberately drag things out. The weird thing is, they have a kid together, but want to use NO lawyers, just do some thing on Legal Zoom. Also, it seems even NON-religious people would not be okay with it either. Edited on November 30, at Delete Report Edit Lock Reported.
Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters. Kingslayer Send a private message. Too many red flags. If she was open and honest about it with her husband and didn't want to hide things, I personally wouldn't be as concerned with something like that. In addition, her reply to you about "you'll pull this again" was kinda bitchy given your rationale was preferring to wait until her divorce is finalized.
If she can't deal with that, launch. Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. I know what you mean. She said several months ago before meeting methat she did try to have the "seeing other people" conversation with him, but Of course, that was the brunt of their marriage every time they would try to have a mature discussion He's very childish like that.
He doesn't like conversations regarding unpleasant topics, even though it requires discussing. So there goes trying to talk about it with him. As far as her thinking I me "might do it again", we discussed that I think she feels that I may come up with another reason other than the divorceto dump her How often he'll be in the picture, and such. Otherwise, I see no other reason, but when we talked further, it seems the reason in her mind is that since I thought I was to so Dating a woman who is legally separated to call things off, that my feelings weren't at the same levels as her feelings about me us.
Which is a true statement. And thus, she feels that if we get together again AFTER her divorce, I may not be at the same level emotionally as the relationship progresses. Dating a woman who is legally separated see, lately, I've been trying to take things slow with women as I think I fell into the whole "relationship burn out" One person gets burnt out on the other as you're spending time with each other multiple times a week, sometimes daily. Now that I'm taking the "taking things slow" approach, it has attracted women, and obviously, it attracted her as she wanted to start off as friends first She wants you to agree to her terms about hiding the relationship from her husband.
To me, if things were truly as she had stated--that he initiated the divorce--it wouldn't make sense that he would care if she is seeing someone.
It doesn't make sense yes, in that regards. BUT, legally, if he finds out, he'll probably run her through the wringer in the divorce, demand full custody, more money or get out of having to pay alimony, etc.
Basically, it can impact the outcome of the divorce and it would NOT be in her favor, legally, if he were to find out. Well then, seems like staying away until after the divorce is finalized is the most prudent thing to do, don't you think? Suppose you continue this and he finds out anyway.
You'll be dealing with all that BS. Americanguy1 Send a private message. In a way I dont blame him. It's hard to see and realize your family is gone and you child will be beside random men, but I guess life goes on.
But if she is making Dating a woman who is legally separated much money as you said in your reply to me, there won't be any alimony. He can demand full custody regardless of who she is or isn't seeing. What money would he be demanding if they both have lucrative jobs? Very few men ever get that, never mind full custody, unless the mother is human garbage. You seem to want to justify your own behavior, and want us to accept the premise that she is telling the truth, but one thing you should be thinking about here is that what is happening now could very well be you in the future.
Wow very one sided from her Why would you Dating a woman who is legally separated anything that this woman said? And why with all of the single women out there would you want to date one with kids who is still legally married?
Is it because you were flattered that she pursued you? Dating a woman who is legally separated you so anxious to jump into a relationship that you would chance one with someone who could simply be looking for someone to take care of her and her kid s financially? You assume too much about her financial status.
Both her and her soon-to-be ex are doing well financially as they both have rather lucrative paying careers. The father lives within a few miles, so he'll be around to take care of his child.
No, I'd say that you are the one that's making a lot of assumptions. You keep telling us that he can't communicate, that he walks out of the room, etc, but how would you know this unless you witnessed it? You are assuming she isn't lying to you. If they both have lucrative jobs, they would want a lawyer to protect their financial interests. But you tell us they are cooperating yes?
Have you seen the paperwork? How do you know that there is even a divorce in the works?
For all you know she took off and got her own place. Everything that you are telling us that "he" is saying is basically cheater- speak coming from her. ALL of your info comes from her. But this doesn't raise any red flags to you? That's a dangerously naive mistake.
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You are involved with a married woman, pure and simple. You are interfering with another man's family. All that stuff about Catholic guilt is your conscience telling you you're being a fool. That must be some good sex to overcome your common sense, assuming of course you actually have any. I guess that is the assumption I am making. LadyKat Send a private message.
Who realistically needs more drama? The separation divorce ex husband not at her house hiding you She should not involve you in that situation. It matters nothing who is at fault, her or him. She should get completely clear on the relationship front before seeing you. It would make me feel bad if someone thought me the kind of person who would ever date before it was legally over.