I don't have the money for sex toys.
Can you give me some inspiring ideas of household items that can be incorporated into kinky play? Spontaneity and creativity can be some of the very best driving forces of BDSM play.
This is why household items are so easily adapted into kinky play.
Many kinksters have the gift of being able to look around their environment and seek ways to pervert the things around them. This can be a beautiful quality in a person!
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Neck ties, thigh-high stockings, and scarves can be used as blindfolds, gags, and tethers. Read up though and learn to tie safely.
There are lots of online tutorials that teach you how to create safe knots, what areas of the body should not be tied and other safety tips like keeping scissors nearby in case your bound lover panics. You may have things in there that vibrate, like an electric toothbrush or shaver. Try pressing it up against nipples, your clitoris, or his frenulum.
If you run a rope around sensitive parts, you can even press the vibrating device against the rope to send sensation through it.
You can also buy disposable vibrating toothbrushes, or this thing called the Tingle Tipwhich is an attachment made to turn your toothbrush into a vibrator. Make an impact by delivering a spanking using a wooden spoon or silicone spatula.
Again, there is an art to spanking. Go slow, build the sensation, and make it last.
Spank meaty parts of the body, like the butt and thighs. Avoid joints, organs and bony regions.
But let me say it again: I say this because the number one household item people stick in their butts is a Sharpie marker. That's probably because a Sharpie presents like an easy starter tool.
The tip is rounded. However, it is a totally inappropriate butt toy.
It could easily get stuck in your butt and require that you go to the emergency room. Any item you use for anal play needs to anchor outside the body. So fingers, a penis or any toy with a flared base would be appropriate. Sharpies and vegetables present the possibility of getting lodged in the soft inner tissue of the rectum.
Dangers exist with improvised sex toys. When in doubt, buy something of quality from your favorite sex shop. Whether you're playing alone or with a partner, be smart. Reproduction without explicit permission is prohibited. What household items make good sex toys?
Written by Ducky Doolittle. Ducky DooLittle is a pleasure-based sex educator and the resident sex toy expert for Blush Novelties and Sola. She also leads the marketing team, does some sex toy design work, tests prototypes and brings pleasure to the world!
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