No matter how keen you are or how hard you coax, your wife may never be into it. So don't set your sights too high. She may object for any number of reasons.
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Maybe she's squeamish about cleanliness or worried it will hurt. Perhaps she had a bad experience with anal in the past.
If she's afraid of getting dirty — not sexy-freaky dirty but stains-on-the-sheets dirty — invite her to take a nice, steamy shower or bath with you first. Just the act of stripping down and lathering each other up may get her in the mood to experiment.
Is she afraid of pain? If so, it's not unwarranted. If not done correctly or carefully, anal sex can be extremely uncomfortable. The "receiving end" must be relaxed.
The sphincter instinctually tenses up if its owner is uncomfortable or nervous, which makes penetration more difficult for you and potentially more painful for her.
If she's open to trying, be sure to start with lots of foreplay, doing all the things that normally get her excited. Then engage her anus with your fingers, working your way there slowly and gently. When it's time to enter, use lots of lube.
And I mean lots.
If your wife has tried anal before and it didn't go well, invite her to talk about the experience. You both need to know what didn't work.
Reassure her that this time would be different, and — this is important! Does she have any sexual fantasies of her own? Include them in the experience so her desires are fulfilled along with yours. Begin with a conversation.